What should I expect of my friends?

Some friends are going to feel awkward; others will want to call you every day. You'll need to set the tone: "I want to talk about anything but Breast Cancer today!" or, "I need someone to cry with."

Many women find that they want to talk about breast cancer with other women who have Breast Cancer. They create two circles of friends -- fellow survivors, and friends from before. Your best friends love you, but they probably can't understand exactly what you're going through. So let them help in other ways.

Your co-workers may want to donate sick days to you or take up a collection. Your pals may want to bring dinner or drive your kids to soccer practice. Accept their help! You might feel awkward. You probably don't want to impose. But it's important to recognize that people who care about you need to try to help. Let them do something.